Online dating can be a lot of fun. However, every time I make arrangements to meet a man I’ve been conversing with online I’m a little apprehensive. When you meet by email, I.M., text or phone, you don’t know if the dating chemistry will be right. You need to meet in person to really know.
Dating chemistry is very individual and not everyone is compatible. There are five senses which all need to be satisfied. Looks are important, but certainly not everything. The sound of his voice, the scent of his hair, the taste and feel of his kiss and the caress of his hand are all significant. But the main factor happens to be pheromones. There’s something highly erotic about a man fresh and sweaty from the gym (if in fact the pheromones are right) and a little perspiration in the bedroom can be a turn-on. Perhaps it would be a good idea to meet at the gym for your first date with your online paramour. Have a hard workout together lifting weights and the chemistry factor will become poignantly clear. Chemistry compatibility is important when considering a future with someone new. Plan a date and see what happens.